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How to tell a friend he's pretty much being a stalker


pyro91

My friend really likes this one girl an she is not interested. She has even told him this to his face. And he just doesn't get it. He calls her or texts her like five or six times a day. I don't know what to say to get through to him

JustDance
Explain to him that she already said no and since he keeps asking her it is harrassment. He is also being stalkerish because he calls and texts her so much asking the same thing everytime and if he doesn't stop it could get him into a lot of trouble. If you just talking to him doesn't work, you should seek more help from adults and counselors to your friend out.


faithinthesummer

I think in this situation it is very important for the friend to voice that it is unwanted attention and it will not be tolerated. I agree with 'JustDance' that she should consider consulting an adult or someone in a position of authority, but at the same time I feel that can be an incredibly hard thing to do especially in a small school where everybody knows everybody ...unsure.

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