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Negative language directed toward gays/lesbians


autmnacoustic

What other kind of language can we resort to instead of homophobic or otherwise offensive.

ex: using 'fag' or 'that's gay'

candleholder21
You could say "I don't like that, I think it's dumb" or "I think that's retarded". We don't have to use slurs against people's ideas. If you wanted to get creative, you could even make up your own words, that way you're not offending anyone.


valynntine

Don't say that's retarded. That's also a slur. If you don't like something just SAY "I don't like it".

rebelrock
how about using specific language instead of language that demeans groups of people? English is a vast language - there are so many good, colorful options. I think it's important to call our friends on their slurs - no one else will.

valynntine
Definitely call your friends out & let them know their language offends you.

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